The phrase “tussie mussie” comes from a medieval word that means “sweet posy.” Originally, they were fragrant, floral nosegays carried by both men and women to help mask foul odors and protect themselves from disease.
Tussie Mussies
Plants such as lavender, rosemary, thyme and sage were specifically used during the plague because of their disinfectant properties, as well as for their strong fragrance.
Eventually, tussie mussies became part of floriography, the art of sending messages by flowers. By the late 18th century and throughout the Victorian Era, tusssie mussies had gained in popularity, so much so that antique floral dictionaries were handed down from Mother to Daughter as a means of teaching them this very important social grace.
The following were taken from “The Language of Flowers” by Kate Greenaway originally published in London, 1884. For a more modern version of flowers and their meaning check out thelanguageofflowers.com
Deep Red Alas ! for my poor heart
Yellow Disdain
Chrysanthemums
Red I love
White Truth
Yellow Slighted love
Daffodil Regard
Dahlia Instability
Daisy Innocence
Fern Fascination
Foxglove Insincerity
Larkspur Lightness
Lilies
White Purity
Yellow Gaiety
Roses
Burgundy Unconscious beauty
Red Love
White I am worthy of you
Yellow Jealousy
Rosemary Remembrance
Snapdragon Presumption
Sunflower Adoration
Tulips
Red Declaration of love
Yellow Hopeless love
Variegated Beautiful eyes
Zinnia Thoughts of absent friends
On this Valentine’s Day, instead of a dozen red roses, consider giving someone you like, or love, a tussie mussie with flowers, handpicked for their meaning. Since most of us do not have a floral dictionary, tuck in a card to explain the special meaning of your bouquet.
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Pat, I very much enjoy your postings. This winter is long and cold, as they all are here, but I must admit, I am counting the days to warmer weather. Take care, and thanks for lifting the deep freeze,
Arlene
Arleeeeen! So glad you like it. This is the worst winter yet… You were one of my early inspirations for gardening. I still think of you when I’m out in the yard. Especially when I come upon on of the many plants you have shared with me. Hope to see you soon maybe at a spring garden party and plant swap.